STOP TRYING TOO HARD
We all love attention , but a natural doesn’t need to push it.
People I know might take this post personal , but people should accept other people’s opinions and not take everything to heart. Nothing wrongs with HONESTY.
From I challenge you , to girls wearing pillows around them selves like its the fashion at home trend ( wtf is that all about)
Day quarantine no who cares ?
and the list goes on!
Girls wanting to give style advise when they need to style themselves.
Working extra extra hard at home and jumping in the air into pillow cases with flashes surrounding them to get the perfect in house shot , NEWS FLASH girl you taking a selfie in your bathroom will get you more likes and engagement , why ? Because it’s real and natural.
I work in this social media field and sometimes professional shoots for certain brands is necessary for a brand image , but what I and probably a lot agree , why are you working sooo hard right now and doing everything to make you get the best shot , do your thing but CHILL BABY GIRL 😛 it’s not as easy as you thinking , it takes years of realness and being your own SELF , not how people want you to look , No offence but it just shows 😛 it’s like saying you love surfing and that’s what you do best and you never surfed in your life 😛
Biggiest example .. TIK TOK ! who didn’t dance on on i’m a savage ? Everything just looks the same man, Admittance I downloaded it , posted view videos ( not following trending #’s of whats trending today , Honestly thought it was the stupidest and silliest app ever man , I said I would keep and post for promoting things I love , maybe switch it up to what I love doing best , but no I’m not going to answer questions that are bubbling out of my head and dancing on a tiktok challenge , don’t get me wrong some accounts are pretty creative but this app was not for me , who knows maybe things change . ( it always does )
Point is ladies and gents , find your passion and do it , sit with yourself and be like what do i want to do , not what you are obliged to do for attention and for more likes etc . I left my job for social media , I found my passion here , I swear we not pretending here ( well some of us)but it makes me sad seeing people trying too hard wanting to be something they are simply not.
Do your thing and do what you love doing best for you not others.
If you love cooking take videos and share them just because YOU LOVE COOKING , don’t do it because everyone is , trust me people now a days who knows who is real and who isn’t .
If you love doing something don’t say I will , just start right about now .
MUCH LOVE xx